It took me awhile to go thru how to write a post here... and I don't know whether I am doing it correctly or not...

We grow with technology - I no longer need a laptop to update blog. A smart phone is all I need. But seriously, I think I prefer to type using keyboard... yaya... old school.

Let me try to fill up the gap from my last post in 2010 till now 2017.... OMG.. 7 yrs!!!!!!!!! I'll try...

Year 2011

The year I turned 30. I was in my early 20s when I started blogging.... now I'm in my thirty...

I remembered the awesome birthday my sistas did for me on the big 3 night. They had especially appeared infront of my gate at 0000 to sing happy bday song. They ganged up with baobei... purposely dun date me that night... make me stay at home MSN with him (yeah..
 Still MSN era).. and then midnight all appear. Very happy indeed. I still remembers!

I start working in Zoo.... seriously... I'm still there today! My longest organisation. I'm still there not bcoz it's fantastic... but objective n goals changed. (Family oriented now).

2012

Very important year!!!! I got married with baobei leong on 25 Feb 2012. And delivered our dear son on 22 Dec 2012. That's exactly 10 months. And I want to announce.... IT'S NOT SHOTGUN.... I'M JUST BEING EFFICIENT. Haaaaaaa

2013

Seriously... life changed after Rey came in my life. For good and for bad. Made many sacrifices  (I mean it.. MANY).
I sacrifice my sleep
I sacrifice my ME time
I sacrifice my career (I just need an occupation.. not career now)
The list is nv ending... BUT, no regrets.
I love Rey to the moon and back

2014
Rey rey rey rey......

2015
Rey rey rey rey........

2016
Rey rey rey rey.........
Our first overseas trip together as family. We went to Perth - Awesome! Maybe a separate post on this so Rey could read next time.

2017
Another major year. It's no longer Rey rey rey... now is Rey & Raelyn (I like to call RaElYn). We had our princess on 30 July 2017. Our family nuclear is complete. Close shop!!!

I am back!!!!! Tune in for more info!

What the HELL???

WHAT THE HELL???? Yes... i simply cannot stand what i'm seeing how some idiot behave nowaday...

MEN... where are ur balls????????????? back to mother nature? mother nature dun even accept this kind of "bor ji ball"... tmd.. (pardon my language).. i look down on you... its a pity i didn't take out my phone and take that idiot picture, else i sure post it on stomp and here and everywhere for people to see how sickening you are!

ok... here it goes....

i was walking to the bus stop after work and as i was approaching the bus stop, i noticed one mercedes stopped there for quite a while already. when i just reached the bus stop, i heard one gal dashing out of the car asking for help. she sound so helpless and desperate lo... poor thing...

As she approached the man (which is the bor ji idiot) asking him to help, he siam as if she is asking him to so some survey. so she has no choice but to go back the car to cool her angry (or rather siao) father.

that old man very fierce lo... scream so loud. Anyway, in summary, from what i observed, father and daughter have some arguments, daughter claimes father is drunk cannot drive, father die die also wan to drive, daughter took the car keys refuse to give father, father tu lan scream at daugher. simple?

so, daughter plead the man (bor ji idiot) TWICE! and the 2nd time sound more desperate!!! and bor ji idiot STILL siam her!!! tmd....

seriously that father really very fierce la... but that doesn't give u an excuse not to even help that poor gal....

so... no one help.. i help lo... (but seriously, i also damn scare what if the siao father come wack me la.. aiyoo!!! ) so i ask the daughter wan me to call the police?? she simply say i dunno...

so i also dunno to dial 999 or not... there are 5 of us at the bus stop, NO ONE, NO ONE.. i repeat NO ONE go forward to help. only open their big eyes and see.. tmd.. aku really feel like digging out their eyes....

anyway, as i asked the gal need me to call police, the siao father kept shouting and scolding the daughter to GET BACK THE CAR! though jin scare inside, but still act cool outside... i ask her further... "any brother? sister? mother? husband? friend? to calllllll??????" i call for u.........

she replied.."i can't call.. he won't allow me to call.."....

tmd.. so weak and scare.... so i assured her.. "nvm, u give me the number, i call for u.. else i call police in help ok??"...

she only look at me blank.. bor reply... then as her father shouted at her again... finally... she said,.... "CALL THE POLICE PLS"..

hor sey.. i take out my phone wan to dial 999.. suddenly she say a number for me to call... 6xxx xxxx... i wan to call.. but... but... i cannot catch her saying the numbers.. she was so afraid till speak also can speak properly.. poor gal....

so as i asked again.. aku really jin serious wor! completely ignore the father! haha... i think the father sense something not right, suddenly cool down and tell the daughter, he is not taking the car, he walk instead.... and walk off....

and at the same time, her sister called her mobile, she listen the call... father walk one direction, she got the call walk another direction ( i could hear her asking her sis come help). i stand in the middle.. see my bus coming... i also bor chap liao la!

and.. THAT's when... ppl at the busstop FINALLY make some noise... talking abt wat happen.. discussing abt what... who who who.. what what what....

TMD... when ppl need help, all kept quiet dun render help. show finish liao so many comments....

I SERIOUSLY... look down on these ppl...

though i didn't do anything, but at least i asked what she want... at least i am ready to render my help should she need... at least i make so noise and assure her alittle....

award goes to that bor ji idiot.... poor gal plead u twice leh!!! he can simply ignore and continue pressing his phone..... tmd.... indeed an IDIOT..... PUI!

Shocking surprise... AWESOME CNY Gathering

HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR PEOPLE!!!!!

I don't usually enjoy CNY... i am not very close with my relatives (How close can we be when we only meet once or twice a year??). But amazingly, i do enjoyed my CNY this year!

Day 1 - unusual, i can slp all i wan today. No disturb and the damn construction is not making any noise this day. i can slp alll i wan... but strangely, i woke up at 10am....

Wait for my sis and bro (my mum's son) to come home for lunch. Played monoploy with my dear Harry. 1 cousin visited with her twin son.... went to my sis's hse then my bro (mum's son) hse. END OF DAY 1.. simple and nice... no visiting to other places.... cool.. :-)

Day 2 - Baobei came my hse.. nua whole day and at evening go Jo's place for awesome gathering! Jo's new place was nicely renovated. i like.. simple and nice.. except... why HDB so small now?? wasted... and as usual, we have crazy night there. played rapid dough and sabotage game. needless to say.... FUN is the word! hahahahahah.....

Day 3 - AWESOME!!

suppose to go ying's hse for steamboat lunch at 1230pm. coz i went leong's hse bai nian late, i sms ying say i'll be alittle late... who know this ying reply say postpone to 330pm! and while i wait for 330pm to arrive, she sms again say 6pm! from lunch to dinner.. i am angry.. furthermore she never say why postpone, so short and brief like wan to avoid wat... so i get more & more annoyed! i almost say i dun wan to go!!!!!

but still... i appear myself at her place at 6pm sharp. and she insisted i must bai nian with her "mother in law". so ANYWAY.. ok lo... go find her "mother in law" and bai nian as she wish.... and while i open the kitchen door... i am so so soooooooooooooooooooooooo surprise to see a familiar face smiling at me!!!! i scream with joy immediately! its KRISTIE! this darling came all the way from KL to singapore just to spend some time with ying and me! oh my god........ i am truely indeed touched!

with this, i wan to tell my BBF - Ying.. Sorry.. i misunderstood you... muacks! i love you too.. hahahahahaha

really awesome! we spend our time wisely! dun let any single min go to waste... slp also together! hahahahhaha

the next day was relaxing as well.... chill out, chit chat, gals talk.. update... thank u girls... u make my CNY.

Appreciated... my awesome birthday and CNY surprises by Fann and Kristie.... Love u both.

Thanks James for taking care of darling Jayden for a night so Kristie can enjoy with us without having to worry...

U gals are wonderful... such a blessing i have u both in my life... muacks..

Great surprise on bday!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!!

Birthday starts with wonder wishes from all my beloved friends online... ( http://baobei.com.sg/blog/ )

When u have an IT boyfriend... this is likely what you'll get... but i LOVE IT! It was indeed a lovely surprise and make my day!

When baobei told me there's a surprise on my bday, i still thought he is getting me a dog! and the dog will appear and wish me happy bday! hahahaa.... i guess i'm wrong... digital dog he'll give though... SEE! IT man...

i can't stop reading again and again all ur wishes.. thank u gals...

And this post was posted using my new macbook baobei bought for my bday!

Such a darling baobei... i realised i felt more and more fortunate as i spend more time with you! I love u baobei.

Going to spend the wonderful night with u later! i can't wait..........

Thank you gals for making my day so special! LOVE U ALL...

u gals good lo.. didn't even leak out any single clue to me... well done!

What to do next????

Sometime...... "Don't ask is better than u asked"....

When you asked something... turn out not what u expected.... it add more problem to you than solving your problem....

Don't understand? its ok..NVM!!

I wanted or actually planned to do certain things this year....why did "you" tell me not to do what i planned???

SO well... i couldn't make a firm decision now... shall just wait and see.....
SIghed.....

CNY is coming.. oh welll yes.. ANOTHER YEAR... i typically dislike CNY... other than its public holiday, i don't need to work... i cannot find other reason to like CNY....
The same old routine every year... SIAN...

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2010!

*Blink Blink* its already 2010!!!! Happy New Year to all....

I hope my new year is indeed HAPPY though...

Life been quite stale but stable recently... with the same schedule almost everyday hence nothing really interesting been catching up.

i did not state any resolution for 2010 but hope to acheive some items on my agenda this new year.

2010... still not sure whether its a good year or not, hopefully will be better than 2009 with stable econmy, less terrorist attack and less natural disasters..

Just watched the movie, Avatar. i feel human kind is really horrible destroying all mother nature after this show, but we have to do that to meet our demand and needs. Well, we can't have the best afterall.. Nice movie, very new and fresh topic, i like this show. GO catch it if you haven't.
Also, try to catch it in GOLD CLASS if you can.. omg!! i'm addicted to such luxury cenimas already!!!! the chair is soo comfortable you can lie down while watch the movie, people serving you food and drink and blanket provided to keep you warm.... wonderful....
Of coz.. such service come with cost... pamper yourself onces a while is still alright i guess..:-)

Just back from Korea in Dec 09.

Korea failed to impress me though, secenary was so so OK only. Hot spring was a huge disappointment and the eating house or shop or even the toilet cannot keep me warm.
Its freezing cold outside, the next time u wish is a toilet seats with warmer and warm water to wash your hand.. both were not available in Korea. I miss Japan at that instance.

Food was OK could be better i believe.. Our tour guide keep bringing us to buy things, shop after shop.. i hate this as its so commercial!... honey at jeju island.... kimchee.....ginseng...."dong chong cao"....purple crystal factory outlet.... korean make up outlet....

What irritate me the most was...... i accidentally deleted all my photos for the first 4 days in korea.. YES! ALL photos.. no doubt.... so i decided not to upload anything this round.. :-(((

Anyway.. HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Hope.....

Good Health; Good Wealth; Good Luck; Good Economy; Good Society; Good Environment and HAPPY!!!!!

:-)))))

Alright.... i know its been sometime since i last blogged.. omg.. just a BLINK BLINK.. its almost 3 months from my last blog... but glad to say - Life is wonderful during the period i "absent" from blogging!

Adapted the new working environemnt already, already face the fact that i need to travel so far to my new office. Everyday travel to work via BMW... (its Bus, Mrt, Walk in case u wonder.. no, i'm still as broke as before!)

New office location seriously speaking wasn't that bad. i get to eat cheaper food there, i get to eat more variety of food and well, my work station "feng shui" is also very good. Other than i get lesser air con than other area, the rest is perfect. I was seated in one cosy corner where no one can even tell whether u came to work or am i playing in facebook or MSN whole day. I like my work station. If my boss is further away from me, everything will be PERFECT!

Oh well, to update my previous post, "her" life isn't easy here. Ppl says i'm being fierce and too hard on her - as if i care? i already said and make clear myself, i am still a woman. too bad.
Let's skip her.

Workload is increasing and thank goodness, i can work well with my new boss.

Bao is back from her 5mths plus NZ adventure! miss her damn so much! Welcome back!! its time to face the reality and start updating ur CV and go for interviews i guess baby? hahaha Good luck (U always do).

I do really envy of her... get to travel and do so many things... i wish i can do that too.. "blink blink".. who share the same view as me????

OH and.. yes... life in wonderful include my darling leong also. My life won't be that wonderful w/o ur contribution ya!? Muacks.

So ya, will update my blog to capture the wonderful memories!

BLOODY FAT ASSHOLE....

First, I apologise for such "cheap" heading. But again, those are the best words that came across my mind to describe this FAT WOMAN. She doesn't deserve better in any case.

I do not usually call people FAT. Coz FAT is such a cheap word to use! But if i ever use such word on you one day, it shows you are not only FAT, but also means i DON'T LIKE YOU AS A PERSON that's why i'm using FAT on u!

Yes... i am indeed very irritated and pissed with this FAT WOMAN. SHE is FAT, she is UGLY, she is DISGUSTING... i don't care whether i will get any karma in future coz i'm just stating the truth here!

What damn pissed me off is the FAT WOMAN's ATTITUDE. A person without proper attitude is really.... failure.... SICKENING

Onces again... she doesn't know who she is dealing with...

OK! why is she so bad....

FAT WOMAN is from another company we recently acquired. So FAT WOMAN has a very big title and call her "MANAGER". But its only the title she got, she has no "ingredient" at all! Everybody knows this when you have dealing with her or seen her CV.

FAT WOMAN recently just moved to our office (with the so call SYGNERY and COST EFFECTIVE MEASURE), we all have to work under one roof. When we were introduced to FAT WOMAN some time back, she already failed to give us a resonable impression. But that time still no frequent dealings and don't have to see her everyday, her existence basically doesn't cause any inconvenient to us.

So FAT WOMAN moved in, my BOSS got "moved out" (no no no... pls this is not a replacement! thank god! i might as well throw letter if i were to report to such ASSHOLE!).... My EX BOSS "moved out" for some reasons lets not discuss here.

SO my NEW BOSS came all the way from HONG KONG OFFICE... FAT WOMAN tries her very very VERY BEST to please my NEW BOSS... She offer to find a place for him, she find every opportunity to go into his room and talk to him, she tries all the way just to help him should he need any help!

SO.. what really pissed me off is her SMALL ACTIONS! in order to make NEW BOSS like her, i think she must have poisoned all of us. Till today then we know! TA DA! but then... i must say... FAT WOMAN is not only FAT! but brainless also! but still, she doesn't fall under the category of BIMBO.. how sad... Why must you have so many SMALL ACTIONS if you have the QUALITY?

OK... things goes like this..

My assistant (JO) and i don't report to work exactly on time everyday (the whole world knows!). BUt coz of NEW BOSS, we r trying our best to come early. SO FAT WOMAN happily told us, NEW BOSS and her will be back to their office for meeting MONDAY morning. Hence indirectly telling us we can come late not to worry. Luckily for Jo and I, we didn't not listen to her... But STILL LATE LA! i tried.. seriously.. i tried.. but dunno why.. still late leh.. hahaha ANYWAY, lateness wasn't a BIG issue to me. I report to work 30mins late today. BUt what surprise me was i SAW THEM ALREADY WORKING in the office which is not what i expected to see!

Anyway, let me confirm again, late is NEVER big issue to me. So i simply says GOOD MORNING and starts my day. Its my dear JO, (she is 45mins late lo.. hahaha) got a shock when she stepped in, and immediately ask FAT WOMAN why is she here and not in meeting! OK OK!! THIS IS THE PART AKU SI BEI BUAI TAHAN!!!! FAT WOMAN... showing that YA YA PAPAYA LOOK! PRETENDING she never hear my Jo talking to her... the using her YA YA PAPAYA LOOK tell my dear JO.. "OH IS IT? CHANGE DATE LE, U DUN KNOW MEH?"... TMD...

up to this point, she really got me in FIRE... what attitude right? thinking she has successfully back stabbed us! Pls lo....

And throughout the day.... she is SO BUSY!!! (i should use.. PRETENDING TO BE SO BUSY).. when she talk, so loud, wanting the whole world knows she is TALKING TO HER STAFF with her super BOSSY TONE. Again, she grab every opportunity to ask NEW BOSS stupid questions and go into his room for her so call "DISCUSSION"....

Throughout the day, she is so SICK ( or should i say.. PRETENDING TO BE SO SICK) that she kept saying she is giggy, she want to faint, she can't make it, she is sleepy, she is weak... blah blah till my NEW BOSS ask her need to see doctor then happily stop. I MEAN., FAINT LA! then i decide want to save u not. TMD...

that TOTALLY PISSED ME OFF... i really dun LIKE THIS KIND OF PPL.....

Anyway... End of the day... the conclusion is... i sense my NEW BOSS BUAI TAHAN her also.. we r on the SAME BOAT. hahhaha

AND BEST... after all she TRIED her best.... she doesn't know she is going to REPORT TO ME when we MERGE...

XIAO JIE... I MAKE SURE U HAVE "WONDERFUL LIFE" soon.... REMEMBER.. i am STILL A WOMAN!

i simply cannot stand her!

What a week....

All i would say my mood for this whole week is... SHOCKED.... SHAKEN... SURPRISE.. well. perhaps surprise was not a very good word here... ANYWAY!!!!!!

Alot of things had happened and going to be happened soon... it is really a BIG QUESTION MARK in the near future. How i wish i have the power to see my future. What if i choose option A.... the outcome will be?? WHat if i chose option B... the outcome will be?? What if i chose option A, would option B be a better choice? blah blah blah..... i'm not a good chooser i admit. sighed... can someone choose for me!? i'm confused.

Oh ya well.. perhaps not a very good time to disclose in my blog or say out at this moment. but i'm thinking alot these days. perhaps i think too much i think....

So guys.. let me continue to think.....................................................................................................................................................................................

V day!

Nice right? Thank u Mr Leong! :-) .. Seriously, to me V day is way too commercial now. Why must we follow the crowd and do what every other couples are doing on the same day!? Make no sense to me at all!

Anyway, we still have a nice dinner at seletar airport... east camp??? i couldn't remember, but surprisely there serve pretty good food. Away from town, away from crowd.

And Mr Leong, tested and proven i indeed dun quite appreciate flowers ya? Haaaa... But i do appreciate your thought! Muacks!

So ya, in future you can well utilise ur "resources" to better "investments"... *hint* *hint*... whahahhahahahaha.........

JAYDEN JAYDEN JAYDEN!!!!! oh my GOD!

I can't help but to "steal" this pic from Kristie's blog... OH MY GOODNESS!!! Jayden know how to sit already!!!! And he is sooo CUTE....

wasn't i just went KL?? he changed so much!!! this little darling ah!! melts my heart!

Com'on sister and brother... we have to plan another KL trip! i MISS JAYDEN!!!!!!!

Just looking at this pic... i bet u'll be attracted by him... goodness!!

ENJOY BAO!

Dear Bao currently enjoying her backpacker life for 5 months in New Zealand. Envy right? i am very lo....

How i wish i'm with her... how i wish the one travelling is me... how i wish how i wish.. but she got her own scarifies to make which i doubt i can afford now.. arghhhh..

Perhaps, my next job should find a job that requires travelling. This case, i get to travel and get paid! haa.. or better, post there for few mths? i definitely can travel till i shoik! i wish......

Bao, enjoy yourself ya!

For those who are interested to know what Bao is doing... catch her online! http://www.piggybao.blogspot.com/

HAPPY Moooooo YEAR!

HAPPY 'Moooooo' YEAR to all!!!!!

It has been really quite awhile since i last update my blog. Must be missing it ya!? There were so many things i wanted to write and update here. But like what SY said.. the FEEL of updating my blog is just not here recently.....

When i log on to internet, either MSN or i am playing with my pet "XIAO KE AI" in Pet Society.. Damn, i'm hooked to this game... it has cast a spell on me! i am determine to log on, i have to feed it, i need to clean it, i want to make it happy, i make sure she visit all her friends every time i log in, i made her buy as many things as she can afford, i put her on race to win both $ and paw points.... and i have to keep track of her best friends - Mr and Mrs Teddy's score... see, i'm so busy in pet society where got time to update blog! hahahhaa....

So my poor blog was left collecting dust since last yr till this yr... but nonetheless.. i'm HERE TO UPDATE!!!

Starting from........... KL TRIP with Mr & Mrs Teddy? haaa

KL TRIP

We finally got common 'vacant" time to visit Kristie, James and little Jayden in KL... though short, but very contented. at least i get to see and feel and carry and kiss JAYDEN!!! omg, i am missing him now! he is such such a darling, so cute. His killer smile alway melts my heart. i wish to hug him again.

KL Trip was also a great opportunity to know Mr Teddy Boy - DJ. "Com'on brother, lets go holiday again!!"

But this KL trip, was also my first trip ever - that didn't even buy a single thing back! haa... save alot of $ indeed..

When are we planning another KL trip??!!! i can't wait!! Com'on!!

MQ's Wedding

MeiQi's Wedding was really significant for both sy and me. We given our "first time" to MQ liao. well, strictly speaking, sy's "first time", my "2nd time". haha...

Yes... we are the proud Emcee of MQ's wedding. i am so glad i'm assigned to be an english emcee coz believe me, it is so so so so SO much easier to converse in english than in mandarin. When i tried to read sy's script, 5 out of 10 words i don't know how to read lo!!! Even sy got difficulty reading liao let alone me!!

Nonetheless, we done a good job and i guess MQ is happy with our "performance"? haha.. although made silly and funny mistakes during our rehersal, but all these were corrected during the actual run time! Pratice make perfect la!

Well, needless to say, MQ is BEAUTIFUL that night lo!!!

Crazy Christmas at sy's house

Spend my 2008 Christmas at SY & DJ's house. DJ's father made excellent curry, till now i still miss it. Com'on brother... ask ur dad cook again! or u cook for us la! haaa...

Well..i guess, as we "grow", christmas is just another public holiday and perfect excuse to get togetherness. Too bad MR Leong can't join us that night (See... who ask u do ops at this festive period!? But nvm, ending soon! haa), but still its not too bad with enting and bf.

We played Monopoly and i realised DJ is really lucky or good at monopoly lo... he is the MILLIONAIRE that night needless to say. i also not bad, didnt bankrupt at least. but but but... i hardly got land to build houses and hotel leh.. i only own the MRT lines nia.. hahahhaha

Playing games has been the 'IN' thing now. We go crazy with just playing games. My siao sistas and i can play whole night and laugh whole night. "Rapid dough" is a fun game! we played till dough is smaller than 1 cents coin, we still play lo! haha.. Darling, remember we use 1 cents coin size of dough to win the game! hahaha.... and the BIKINI joke.... omg... lets have more this coming sat!!!

NYE at Sis's house

Spend my last day of 2008 at sis's house. why? coz her place can see fireworks without having to squeeze with people, or dun have to time so accurate and hopefully can jam along ECP to view the fire works.

We have our yummy steamboat, then freeflow of wine till countdown to 2009! and believe it or not! i can see both fireworks from esplanade and vivo!!! spectacular view!!!

You VIEW esplanade&vivo fireworks and HEAR Malaysia fireworks sound. Add everything together, i have both visual and audio effect! not bad sia! hahahaa....

A simple gathering, nice......

The tough Moo year ahead

Well... "Moo" year coming soon. But i believe will be tough with the current economy condition. Budget 2009 was surprisingly depressing.

"DEEPEST RECESSION".. this is what i read everyday in newspaper and hear in news. Really low morale.

Everyday at work has been on this topic.. how to increase revenue, how to cut cost, how to improve cashflow, how to maintain going concern issues... sighed....

i dont ask for more bonus, i only ask for stable monthly income. Simple right??

Anyway! lets all work as hard as a "moo" in this "moo" year ba! HAPPY CNY!

SPA TIME...

Well.... After weeks of hard work... weeks of torture at work... after all the effort we put in our work to make our company grow and boost our dear economy... i guess we deserve a treat ya? Our body deserve a good massage... a good scrub.. and of coz a good bath... hahha....

So my swee & "bim" sistas and me signed up spa package to pamper and reward ourselves... since after all we work so hard... we should pamper ourselves ya? haha...

We went to our first spa last Sunday... and it was.. it was... so so only though... i still prefer spa in bintan/batam.. though alittle inconvenient but i think they serve and quality is better.

So we went (ok.. i'm not going to say which one.. at orchard la) on Sunday... Actually when i went for the trial back massage everything was still quite good.. the massage was good.. their technique was relatively ok....
but Sunday full massage wasn't that impressive.. for the first time i did not sleep at all during the massage.. usually i'll sleep after awhile coz toooo comfortable liao.. haha....

so... we have to wait for awhile.. and they did not brief the spa attention our package and what r we doing today.... so instead of them asking me what i want.. i have to ask what u have.. and they seem to me .. not very knowledgable about their own product and our package lo.... Demerit point..

First is the body scrub. The lady didn't ask me what i want... and bring in the scrub liao... i was like.. "wow u can read my mind know what i wan is it".. after asking her and telling her i wan something moisturising.. she also conveninetly say..."THIS ONE LO>".. fine.. anyway.. apple yogult scrub, whatever scrub.. also scrub la... its was good.... someone to help u scrub whole body was indeed.. comfortable!! so yeah! i have "reborn" skin.. haha...

After that is the hydro bath... this one.. ok.. finally she asked what i wan... soak in lavender bath.. oh my... with a cup of tea by the side.. and the music.. ok.. i almost fallen asleep there..... nice bath...

Next.... Full body massage.... Again.. never ask me what kind of massage i want lo... only ask.. u wan soft?medium?hard? where only after that i realised soft is aroma massage.. medium is what massage.. hard is what massage.. must to explain to me mah.. how i know.. anyway i chosen the medium one.. i also cannot remember what.... the strength was good.. but somehow i feel her stroke not very professional... so another demerit point...

Lastly is the foot spa... actually, after the scrub.. after the massage.. fool spa is extra la... but the wax they apply on it.. really make ur feet smooth.. so smooth its giving us difficulty to walk properly... too slippery liao
hahahaa

so so.. we still have medi and pedi didn't do!! really pamper like a princess hor.. haha.... see.. just so easy to earn women's money...

but ok la.. they serve u like queen... Of coz... got funny part la.. but i think too RA to share here.... hahahaha... that remain as a "secret" between the spa sistas.. hahaha..... "that urine part la! aiyooo... Darling hua... i know u r laughing away now.. stab u! hahaa..."

So... when is our next spa treat? I wan to bring my MUMMY along.. she deserve a break too.. :-)

i'm BRACED

Yes... i'm "braced" finally.. haha... after good whole 3 weeks.. i'm finally braced on the 4th week...

1st week --> 8 teeth extraction

2nd week --> Separator.. Ouch!

3rd week --> Lower brackets at my molar..(Caused alot of ulcers lo...)

4th week -->Upper brackets at the upper molar and all other brackets follow.. and TA DA!! i'm braced! haha.. yes... this picture was taken immediately after my orthodontist finished it. (A close up for u guys to see! haha) I chosen baby blue rubber band.. look cute right? hahaa... well... i can really feel the pressure on my teeth when the band were put on.. its a feeling i simply can't describe one tiny piece of rubber band can do to my teeth. and i HATE THE METAL HOOK lo... it make my lip so pain and i cannot close my mouth normally, i tend to push forward to close my mouth. They says --> Goldfish mouth.. haha.. but cannot control leh... coz i scare the 2 metal hook will HOOK on my lip! ouch..

So.. now i have to live with my beloved braces for the next at least 24mths!... i'll get used to it la.. so by the time we go KL... GOOD FOOD WAIT FOR ME! hahaha

I did not weigh myself so have no idea how many kgs or grams i lose.. but from what i feel... not much or infact mayb not at all or worse.. i put on weight!.. although i can't take solid food, but i took many soft food with high carbo! whip potatoes, cakes... hahahaa.....

OK.. for those who are interested in doing braces, this is really a good website i found online. infact, i read it before i have the courage and decide to do braces. Really good website... go and read it and understand more about braces! perfect smile is awaiting me.... (I'm at part 4 already! haha.. ) :-)

http://www.archwired.com/braces_101.htm

Let's get separated!

We been together for almost 20 yrs.. And for the good 20 years we been working very hard and we never leave each other. but now.. now.... have to be separated.. till the day we meet again will be 2 yrs later? I hope, i wish i pray...

Yes.. and the one parting them is ME... haha... i'm in the stage of putting "separator" in between my teeth now.. it is basically a tiny blue rubber that is inserted in between your teeth to make space so that the metal ring can be put later on. imagine the rubber is there to push ur teeth apart...and i must to bear with it for 1 week... 7 days... well.. this is very umcomfortable i must say.. as you can feel the rubber first before u feel ur teeth when you bite. and when you bite, the pressure pushes it and ur teeth will pain.. i practically don't dare to touch my teeth the next day and once it touches... my tears will follow lo... can imagine the pain level.... heng ah... after 1 day of torture, the 2nd day was back to normal. not pain but still uncomfortable.. you know something is in there that make it very uncomfortable but still bearable la....

one more day! one more day i can remove these horrible blue rubber in my teeth.... hopefully by then i can chew and bite..i have been taking 2 weeks of porridge diet already leh... and those who know me well will know my "passion" towards porridge.. i admire myself for able to survive 2 weeks with just porridge.. and crystal jade has been my favourite restaurant since then till now... earn alot of my $ liao hor... oh how i miss the taste of rice... i miss rice.. i wan to eat rice...

My HERO Act! wow... cannot believe.... **Shiver**

Whahahha.... not to scare you all... but yes! HERO ACT... from 4 teeth extraction to 8! all at one go!!!!

come to think of it now... make me *SHIVER*!

Went to the dentist, and i simply ask him whether can extract all 8 at one go coz i wan to suffer 1 time only, he gave me a surprise look and big eyes... and said.. YES OF COZ! hahahahaha

and SO! tada!!! the horrible 30mins starts.....

He sprayed some lotion on my gum, after awhile, injections follow.. yes.. injectionSSSSSS eveyrwhere on ur gum.... this is the most painful part i tell you... its like forever to me! Ouch...

And then.. TADA!! he start to DRILL.. start to PULL.. start to SHAKE... the most difficult one is finally out.. and before i knew it.... he told me the left side all done which means 4 teeth gone! and the right side....
he is very fast wor! Can tell he is indeed experienced an professional... i got 2 teeth that requires surgery to extract, and he did it all within 30mins. very fast!

My dentist also very good la... keep talking to me, assuring me, telling me his next step, told me everytime he took out a tooth, and keep telling m how brave i am... blah blah blah... all these definitely going to give me confident!

And very fast.... my mouth is full of cotton wool and bloody de lo... kaoz... but so far... everything is under control... ppl scold me crazy.. extract all 8 at one go.. if dun stop bleeding i can die lo... but ok la.. so far so good.. hehhee....
except.. i cannot eat lo.... sure slim this time....

and i am hungry now... i wan to chew, i wan to eat! when then i can eat per normal i wonder..... quick... quick over!!!!

Excited.. Yet fearful...VERY FEARFUL indeed.. omg...

Yes...... No doubt... right! i think think think think... for many yrs?? you all been listening to my this thinking for many yrs? ha.. i finally decided.. yes.. to DO MY BRACES...

Dun ask me why wait till now then do... coz only now i have time and money to do? haha... or i finally find the courage to correct my teeth... omg.. its never too late anyway....

Shall update my blog every mth to keep track of my braces journey.. so by the time i take out.. wow! can see BEFORE and AFTER. ahahaha.... i pray everything will be perfect!.. "PERFECT BRACED".. hahaa

The fearful part.. i guess is the tooth extraction part... my first extraction will be on wednesday! (15 Oct!) and at one go... extract 4 teeth wor! OUCH!

then following week, another 4.. what make this complicated was i have an in grown tooth which is underneath my wisdom tooth and 1 normal tooth... so this is a big problem lo... have to go surgery to take out that in grown tooth, else one day if it decay inside also jia latt.. might as well do it now! omg. this is the scariest part i tell u.. not the process, but after that... the pain..

cannot eat, cannot chew... SURE SLIM! hahahaha.. so can feed me with good food from now on till next wednesday....

i am damn excited yet damn fearful together........ can only pray everything go well and smooth...

this. what to do? "AI SWEE MAI MIA".. hahahahhahahhaha

wait for my update again on wednesday ba... i'll be "BOR GAY" wen soon.... gosh.. which means.. i cannot laugh out like what i do everytime liao.... haha become hehe? omg.....

The 5 Ppl you meet in Heaven...

Oh yea! i mentioned earlier i wanted to read this book... and i finished reading it.. and again, it never disappoint me.. very good and meaningful... go catch it if u can. although personally i prefer tuesday with morrie and it let me see and understand more but this book is equally good la.. it managed to keep me reading and wanting to read to the end.

Basically it showed u 5 great lessons you will learn when u meet the 5 great people after you die and in heaven.. ( that's provided you go heaven hor... should he come out with another book... "the 5 ppl u meet in hell?" haha)

First, he (Eddie) met a blue man whom he doesn't know at all.. but so happen, he killed this man unknowingly when he was still a boy.... "Fairness... does not govern life and death. if it did, no good person would ever die young".. so if the blue man doesn't die in that accident, eddie would. who to decide to to die first then? no fairness in either case i think..

Next, he met his captain (he was in the war during his teen). "Sacrifice is part of life" be it big or little... hmmm

Following, he met the 3rd person -- A woman he don't know... Ruby, her name, is the lady staying by her sick husband in hospital and Eddie's father was bedded just beside them. Hence, she see and hear things that Eddie apparently is blind and deaf to. ( In the story, Eddie was not close to his dad, infact he dislike his dad).... " Holding anger is a poison. It eats you from inside. We think that hating is a weapon and attacks the person who harmed us. But hatred is a curved blade. And the harm we do, we do to ourselves" Wowowowowow.......

The fourth person Eddie met was his wife. His wife passed away many yrs ago due to cancer.. so Eddie got to live alone many yrs w/o his beloved wife.. " Lost love is still love. It takes a different form that's all!. Memory then becomes your partner, you nurture it, you hold it, you dance with it. Life has to end, love doesn't." Melts you heart instantly isn't it?? it does for me. haha...

and so.. tada.. the last person Eddie met in heaven is .... a little gal.. which he doesn't KNOW AGAIN!.... this story also deliver this message.... dun think people you don't know are strangers to you, they might have greatest impact in your life, just that you don't know yet. "Strangers... are just family you have yet to come to know..."

So this little girl is someone whom Eddie accidentally killed during his war time. he has no intention but burn this little girl alive. and Eddie blamed himself very hard on this mistake.. he hated himself and think he has never done anything right and important in his whole life. "You made contribution be it how tiny your task may be, hence do your best to every single task you are assigned" that is what i derived after reading the whole chapter.

The story ended with Eddie returning home -- heaven, wth his wife..

Meaningful ya? Next!!! i wan to read... FOR ONE MORE DAY, by Mitch Alborn too. Another life lesson to learn.